the Communication Workshop
module 1- How to create a fulfilling and connected relationship
I'm so excited that you're here! All of the content is available right away, and just as a note -
based on some feedback, some for the sections have been rearranged, so if you hear me reference a video in a following section and don't see it, just know it's still available, but just in a different place.
Lesson 1 - The Truth About Why Relationships Fail
Lesson 2 - The Ultimate Key to Flourishing Relationships
Lesson 3 - The Crucial Building Blocks of Connection
Lesson 4 - How to Dissolve Nearly Every Problem in Your Relationship
Exercises for module 1
The Relationship Questionnaire is designed to help you understand which areas of your relationship are strong, and which areas might need some additional strengthening so you can give extra attention to those areas as you move forward.
This exercise IS NOT to be used to feel discouraged about the quality of your relationship or to judge yourself or your partner. Go easy on yourselves! :)
You're just starting out on this journey with these tools, so things will get better as you implement what you'll be learning.
In the beginning, most couples' results on this questionnaire won't reflect where they would like their relationship to be, but as you continue to do the exercises in following modules and implement them into your daily lives, the quality of your relationship will significantly increase.
This questionnaire is designed to have you look at the 3 building blocks of connection – Accessibility, Responsiveness, and Engagement.
Here's how to rate your scores in each category:
40-50 – Strong (Accessibility, Responsiveness, or Engagement)
30-39 – Moderate20-29 – Fragile
Below 20 – Needs improvement
module 2 - The #1 Shift Necessary to Completely Transform Your Relationship
Lesson 1 - The Most Important Thing That STOPS Relationship Fights
Lesson 2 - How to Completely Break Negative Communication Cycles
Lesson 3 - The Formula to Be Perfectly Understood by Your Partner
Exercises for module 2
Identifying and getting out of your negative cycle is FUNDAMENTAL to the entire process of strengthening your connection, excitement, and fulfillment in the relationship.
Above are the exercises for you to become clear about what your cycle is and how you each unintentionally impact your partner when you get stuck.
module 3- The Proven Blueprint for Conversations That Heal
Lesson 1 - How to Leave the Past in the Past (With It Fully Resolved)
Lesson 2 - The Framework to Repair ANY Damage in Your Relationship
Lesson 3 - The Path To Dissolve Pain and Grow Closer
Exercises for module 3
The Healing Conversation Blueprint is designed to help couples heal from and completely resolve the pain from a past (or current) experience.
Following the steps as they are outlined will help you to get to the heart of the matter instead of rehashing all of the details over and over again.
I'd encourage you to focus on mastering these steps, as there will always be moments of hurt feelings in your relationship, largely because they often happen unintentionally.
So when you know how to repair them right away, it clears out the potential for resentment and hurt to fester.
module 4 - How to effectively Get Your Needs Met
Lesson 1 - Take Your Marriage From Surviving to Thriving
Lesson 2 - 3 Ways to Handle the Lows of Your Relationship
Exercises for module 4
Integrating these exercises into your relationship will take it from feeling like it's at a standstill to breathing new life back into it.
Once you know how to turn to your partner and ask for your needs to be met in a way that triggers a compassionate and willing response, we feel secure, important, loved, and confident in the relationship.
It takes some practice, but mastering these principles will be bring some of the biggest payoffs!
module 5- The Key to Having a Passionate and Satisfying Sexual Relationship
Lesson 1 - The Difference Between Male & Female Sexuality
Lesson 2 - 5 Common Reasons for Sexual Problems & How to Solve Them
Lesson 3 - The Secret Key to Sexual Satisfaction (For Him and Her)
Exercises for module 5
The reason why this module is last is because of how sensitive of a topic it can be for people. It's important to have build a strong emotional base together, as it makes having discussions and seeing progress in the sexual aspect of the relationship easier.
Bonus Section
Bonus 1 - Stop-The-Fighting Solution
Bonus 2 - Immediate Understanding Process
bonus 3 - Proven Approach for Connection (Scripts)
bonus 4 - How to Effectively Rebuild Trust
bonus 5 - Three-part communication mini workshop (audio)
It was 2AM.. He was watching pornography again..
his wife was going to be devastated when she found out, but in that moment, he didn't care...
My friend's marriage was a wreck.. The trust was completely gone. And his wife would sob or get angry each time she found out that he had watched porn...
We met when we were in college, and he shared his struggle with me while I was in grad school training to become a therapist. He told me he'd been battling with his porn addiction for over 13 years.
And he'd done everything he could think of and none of it worked – he'd have success for a few days, weeks, or months. But just when he thought he was in the clear and found freedom, he'd fail again.
As he told me about his struggle in a rundown office on campus, I knew that so many other men were battling the same thing. So I decided that I'd train to become an expert at helping men overcome their addiction and heal their relationship.
The problem was that all of the traditional approaches that everyone was teaching had such high failure rates...
Author and researcher, Zachary Dodes, wrote a book talking about how flawed the addiction industry is..
He found that 12-step had a 90-95% failure rate.
My friend was so desperate that he tried going to groups anyways, and he was not in the lucky 5% that was successful with it...
Maybe you've tried some of the things he did?
- 12-step group
- Willpower and Discipline
- Accountability Partners
- Filters on His Phone
- Therapy
- Prayer
-
Distracting Himself
But none of those things helped him eradicate the addiction from his life for good...
I discovered that the reason why these things fail is because they don't address the core of addiction
Many people wonder, "What is at the core of addiction?"
It's unpleasant or painful emotions –
Addiction is a destructive way to cope with emotional pain, loneliness, boredom, stress, and low self-worth.
And in order for the addiction to be completely eradicated, you must address things on a deeper level..
...but that sounds really hard...
The good news is that it's easier and takes far LESS work to address things at the root level instead of constantly battling against urges and temptations using willpower.
Think about it like this –
Is it hard to chop down a tree?
It depends...
Are you using a butter knife or a chainsaw?
Does it take energy to use a chainsaw?
Sure.
But will it be a breeze compared to using a dull butter knife?
100%.
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Listen to Gabe's experience with my unique approach and how it changed the future of his life and family forever...
